So the other day I wrote a really long beautiful blog and then I went to post it and *poof it just went away. I was so annoyed I didn't bother writing a new one.
The blog was mostly about saying thank you to all of the people who read this blog, and leave me inspiring comments. I really appreciate everyone. It makes me feel so much better to know that people are going through the same thing that I am, and that people can identify with how I am feeling.
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I so understand the pain of wanting a child and having to wait, or to be patient because things does not work that easy, because there are things that prevent this bliss to come to you.
ReplyDeleteI have been pregnant at the third cycle of trying to conceive if my memory is good and I was so happy.
Then it ended in a really painful and awful miscarriage at 10weeks.
It broke my heart.
I thought I was finally there!
I could have fallen back to depression and I decided to be determined and rise my hopes again!
Very hard!It's a true challenge to dig for positive thinking when you feel life seems so unfair!
we tried to conceive right away at the time of the supposed ovulation.but I had AF, then another cycle.The witch again.
Each time you really burst into tears because you so want this to happen.
It drove me insane.
And finally again cycle 3 of trying I'm pregnant.
I still have a hard time to realise it, it's very different from the first time so hopefully this time is for good.
I can relate to your feelings even though I'm pregnant again.
Everytime I got my period again I felt I was reliving the miscarriage, couldn't stand to see the blood!
it just pissed me off!I felt so powerless!
People think it's just so easy!
Everytime people would tell me oh but you're still young enough to think about babies!
I was so angry and totally fed up with this!
30 is really the time to try to conceive, because at this age the possibilities begin to decrease, but of course not with every women.
Sometimes also we can have some fertility problems and then have many kids later, because it also can be psychological.
I don't know all the things you've tried to be pregnant yet. If you do your chart, or test for ovulation?have you ever tried homeopathy?
It did help me at this cycle. It kind of boosted my ovulation, maybe it's a coincidence but at that cycle, I truly felt the little "pain" of the ovulation and it was great because it was a good one!
I took ovarinum 7CH folliculinum 7CH and Progesteronum 7CH
I thought it was better to begin with homeopathy.
also I read that your husband might take bad the "fertility booster" that's a pity.
I hope he does support you a lot in this and that he is ready to have his sperm analysed, because of course it can be a problem both side.
It is also possible none of you have any problem, but to have sex at the right time and for things to happen.
I think I've read we have 25% of chance to be pregnant each cycle, if we have sex at the time of the ovulation of course.
so keep on trying, take your prenatals meds if you're not already :)eat lots of dairy things, it says that ice cream help women be pregnant, well I read that strange or silly thing in some kind of serious American magazine...yeah weird!
Maybe statistics can make people say anything;)
but anyways it's good to cheer you up ^___^
even more welcome in summer!
I also ate lots of grapefruits because it helps with the uterus to be well prepared for an implantation.
I am also trying to write a sort of anonymous blog about my Rainbow bay, I don't know if I want to tell everyone right now.
but I know I need to speak as you can see.
I feel I can relate to you
sending you lots of positive energy,may you become pregnant at this cycle!
blessings