So I am past the first week in my cycle this month. I plan on buying some OPK's on the way home from work tonight. I think I'll start testing on CD 10, that seems about right. I feel weird today, not as hopeful as I have been. DH was not as positive as he could've been this week. He says I need to give him notice before we BD, like a lot of notice. So I told him 2 weeks before, 1 week before and I guess I'll tell him the day before. I really thought we might be able to get a full week of BDing in this month (by a full week I only mean 4 days btw) but that seems unlikely now. He has promised me 2 days, but that just leaves me frustrated. I guess it is going up slowly every month, but jeeze. He keeps telling me it is hard for him because of health reasons but I don't see him doing anything to correct it! I know, believe me I know, that it's hard to lose weight but he needs to do it for other reasons other then procreation.
Contrary to that, I am on a new health kick this week. I have been eating really healthy, not as low in calories as I would like but all really healthy things. I am also walking again. We are starting off slowly, small slow walks. but last time it didn't take long to build up. I am finding it harder then before to get the motivation to walk. It seems like a lot more effort in the summer heat, but I am going none the less.
Maybe this negativity comes from being tired, I should go to bed, see how I feel in the morning.
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This is the blog, as you may have guessed, about my trying to conceive. I started this blog to make the journey easier, to make myself saner. I have decided to write this blog as if no one is reading it, and maybe they won't. This means that I will be truthfull, direct, and graphic at times also it means that I can write without feeling the need to entertain. So if you are sqweemish or never wanted to know that much about me don't read this blog.
isn't it funny.....you would think we were asking our husbands to lift furniture or paint the house. i mean....we are talking about SEX here! what's not to like? what is the hold up? We are actually wanting to GET IT ON and our husbands are complaining? wha? girl, i feel ya..i only got one day (day before ovulation/day of positive opk) out of my husband this month...oh, and just remember to try to make it fun and not put pressure on him. men are so weird. also, a couple good, well timed "sessions" are better than a week of forced, stressed out sex. good luck!!!
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